Notes about marriage, June 2014

I wish marriage was exclusive, though I may agree with, friendship is inclusive.

Marriage brings children + wordly unwanted problems. Frienship is another thing, though you are FREE ENOUGH to deal it as if you were married to that person you loyaly decided to love and care that way.

Marriage seems to be demanding and co-active seeking unnecessary things (for most of the people I knew and know) and if any the spouses had children, I know who would demand a man feeds her birds.    ;)

Frienship is not that way. It obliges no one, though -by love- it might feel compelled to do more.

Regarding loyalty, marriage is legally obliged to honor and respect the bond of such a commitment and also that desirable sexual exclusivity (though the worldly people are emotionaly and practically unwilling to do it so): That´s why divorce exits and grew up!

Friendship is "free". There´s no sexual exclusivity within it and those who are "normal" enough will not share their icecreams with another, and I was jealous enough no other bird would lay its eggs on my nest.

Third parties, like you named GOD or any human as law  enforcer served too little to avoid hidden flaws and the breaking of any of its commitments.

You might imagine the many ways humanity has tried to cheat on GOD, though chaeting was against those we may have said once: "I love you."

A.T.